Monday, 22 July 2013

Martha and Mary

Sermon preached by Revd Ray Anglesea at Howden le Wear Methodist Chapel, 21st July 2013



 On the wall above my dining room table is this copy of a painting painted by the Spanish artist Diego Velazquez in1618. It was painted when the painter was 19 years old. The painting is called “Kitchen Maid with the Supper at Emmaus.”  Here we see not simply a kitchen maid, but a young African woman who is in all probability a slave, in a kitchen - the kitchen of the inn where two disciples and Christ have stopped for their evening meal. The painting depicts a moment in the Emmaus house before the disciples have recognized Christ; the maid looks to be in a state of arrested attention, does she have any idea who the guest is?
       

What I didn’t know is that Velazquez painted, in the same year, another painting where a kitchen maid is the subject of his painting. This second painting is entitled Kitchen Scene with Christ in the House of Mary and Martha, the subject of today’s gospel reading. Velazquez realistically depicts a 17th century Seville kitchen; the foreground is dominated by the face and demeanor of a woman who we take to be a cook; she is about her tasks, hands busy beating or whisking; sea bass lie on a plate, garlic on the table, eggs and red chilies, a flagon of water or wine on the table nearby; the foods are shown prepared in ways typical of Spanish cookery at the time.
 
In the background of the painting is a biblical scene, generally accepted to be the story of Martha and Mary. In it, as we discovered in our Gospel reading Christ goes to the house of a woman named Martha. Her sister, Mary, sat at his feet and listened to him speak. Martha, on the other hand, went to "make all the preparations that had to be made."Upset that Mary did not help her, she complained to Christ to which he responded: "Martha, Martha, ... you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her. In the painting, Christ is shown as a bearded man in a blue tunic. He gesticulates at Martha, the woman standing behind Mary, rebuking her for her frustration.
 
The plight of Martha, worried and upset, clearly relates to that of the maid in the foreground. She has just prepared a large amount of food and, from the redness of her creased puffy cheeks, we can see that she is also upset. Emotion scuds across the woman’s face. Resentment, anger, tearfulness, so near to the surface that in the next moment we imagine she might throw to the ground the bowl she holds, turn to the old woman behind her and just let rip. To comfort her (or perhaps even to rebuke her), the elderly woman behind the maid seems to point out the scene in the background reminding the maid that she cannot expect to gain fulfillment from work alone. The maid, who cannot bring herself to look directly at the biblical scene and instead looks out of the painting towards us, meditates on the implications of the story.
 
Some scholars suggest that the whole painting is set in Christ’s time; the National Gallery say that following cleaning and restoration in 1964, it is now clear that the smaller biblical scene in the background is framed by a hatch or aperture through the wall, one looks into a dining room from the kitchen’s serving hatch. Some scholars suggest that the maid in the foreground is actually Martha herself and the lady standing in the background is just an incidental character.
 
But for me the moment captured in the painting is of the kitchen maid pondering on the words of Jesus to Martha that she has heard, reflecting on their implication in and for her own life. I have every sympathy for the Martha’s of this world – who like me, I suspect, have Type A  personalities –proactive people, always on the go, impatient, can multi-task, we push ourselves with deadlines, hate delays and ambivalence, we are organised and ambitious – compared to Type B personalities, rather like the Mary’s of this world  who generally live at a lower stress level and typically work steadily, who are in the main reflective and think about the outer and inner worlds, enjoy exploring ideas and concepts.
 
And so if like me you have a Type A personality what is it like to hear the words of Jesus when you are up to your eyes with work, e-mails to respond too, gardening to do, friends to visit, visits to the gym, soup to make, minutes to write, a rota to be filled and the many household tasks  that have to get done, when what is really needed if we are to understand the gospel story is stillness and focus and attention on Jesus? Being and doing, contemplation and action. It’s a very present tension in the lives of many people, both in the church and outside, whether we lived in17th century Seville, or 21st century Howden. The problem of where our focus lies  - the balance between actively doing and waiting and stillness doesn’t go away. We are distracted by our many tasks. No time to dwell on the word – the written word, and the word that God speaks to us in the life of his Son.
 
 
In the Gospel story that comes immediately before the story of Mary and Martha we heard how the lawyer was told by Jesus to model the actions of the Samaritan who helped his neighbour. ‘Go and do likewise’ he is told.  Almost in the next breath we hear Jesus telling Martha that Mary’s choice to ‘stay and be and listen’ is the best path. Jesus himself models this tension throughout his ministry. Times of activity and engagement with crowds, healing and teaching, are contrasted with time set aside alone or with his closest followers; to listen to his father, to contemplate and pray.
 
I think it is rather comforting to reflect that the early church struggled to find this balance too. In Acts we hear the disciples voice this dissonance, ‘It is not right that we should neglect the word of God to serve at tables’. As a solution they re-structured the community, choosing some to serve at tables, while we hear, they devoted themselves to prayer and serving the word. It is interesting that those chosen to serve were chosen because they were full of the spirit and wisdom and that the decision made to create this balance in the church pleased the whole community. They knew their need for both forms of ministry.
 
In his reply to Martha, is Jesus exalting contemplation over action, or saying that true disciples leave menial tasks to others? If Martha and Mary are both being hospitable in their own way it may be better to see different kinds of hospitality competing with each other for the limited resources. Jesus commends Mary for her desire to be hospitable to his teaching. By comparison, Martha’s anxious preparation of the meal is a distraction that falls short of what, in this instance, is her sister’s “better part.”
 
Earlier in the Gospel when Jesus sent off the seventy disciples he told them to receive the hospitality they are offered as they entered people’s homes; to eat and take what is given. He also tells the disciples to cure the sick and to say that the Kingdom of God has come near.  As he comes to this home of Mary and Martha, Jesus does the same. Jesus is a guest in their home, the Kingdom of God, in the form of Jesus is beside Mary and Martha, talking to them. But Martha is restless. Jesus repeats her name, as if to get her attention and steady her. We get the impression that she is working too hard, doing too much, so much so that her resentment, like the kitchen maid’s face in our painting is overflowing, consumed by what she is doing. There is no space around or within her; so that her activity is a barrier to the kingdom of God coming close, she cannot hear, she cannot respond, she sets us barriers to Christ’s love and to ways of receiving the kingdom at that moment – she thanks that these gifts will be given to her when everything else is done.
 
So what happens when we Martha’s of the world with our varied active personalities eventually stop and listen for God’s word? How can we achieve a balance of doing and being, of being active and submissive, still and attentive. How can we make space in our daily lives to be with God? Well, if you are like me, all sorts of distractions cross our minds and generally we would not wish to be in that place because we know we will be in unchartered waters and somewhat out of control and out of our comfort zone.
 
But to ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and soul and mind’ is not submissive or passive, it is an active process; listening and stilling oneself requires attention and focus and desire. If we are able to still our souls, centred and listening then out of that listening and stillness and being known before God for who we are and not for what we do, then out of that will flow the deep concern for the well-being of other people and for all that is around us. That place of listening then becomes the wellspring from which we find life, not the place where we hide from it, which is good news for the Martha’s of the world. That space may be the source of great activity. But whatever comes from it, if we live from that place, we won’t be skimming through life, living at the surface but engaging deeply, with what we are about, with what is around us, and with who is around us. What you notice if you look at the original of the Velazquez painting, which is in room 30 at the National Gallery is that it is the product of a deep contemplation on life. Fish, garlic, eggs, the reflection off the glaze on the jug, as well as emotions on a woman’s troubled face, are an engagement with what is real, in that moment. If we take time to sit before God, listen to his word and gaze upon him, in the person and actions of Christ, we will find that when we pick up the ordinary things with which we have to do, engage with the people whose faces we contemplate, the activities that are on our lists, it will be with a sense that Christ is there, at the heart of it all.

Thursday, 18 July 2013

Vision 720?


Last Sunday I conducted the third of Jesmond URC's services based on their Northumbrian Saints Windows, on Aiden By way of introduction I offered this little reflection, raising the question of how far our mission-orientated agenda pursued through Vision 2020 would have been understood by the Church of the Lindisfarne Gospels.
John Durell
 
Stop at the crossroads, says the prophet, and look back at the ancient ways (Jeremiah 6). Which I take it is part of what is involved in this series of  services looking through these four windows at some of the individuals who have walked the Christian way long before us.
But as we stand at the crossroads we also need to discern where the path ahead may be leading, and how we are to prepare ourselves for the way that we shall be taking. Again, I know that you are doing plenty of that here at Jesmond – and on the wider scale, all of us in the United Reformed Church are of course being encouraged to mould our church programmes into the framework provided by Visision2020.

But I’ve been wondering if we were to go back to the Church of the Lindisfarne Gospels, how our ten framework subjects might fit in with Vision720 (or thereabouts)......

1. Our first subject is Spirituality and Prayer: the Church of Aidan, Oswald and their successors would I’m sure be happy to start there too.

2.  Identity. We’ve been hung up on this one for the 40 years since we came together from our different traditions. For them, the differences between Celtic Christianity from the north and Augustine’s mission from the south had had to be resolved – and of course there had to be a winner and a loser.
3. Christian ecumenical partnerships. What I’ve just said suggests this would have been meaningless.

4. Community partnerships. Yes – but at a different level: the whole business of conversion of the king leading to conversion of his subjects suggests an essential partnership between church and palace – and no doubt with some of the tensions experienced in our community partnerships today.
5.  Hospitality and diversity. The Celtic Church was great at hospitality, but I suspect our affirmation of the value of diversity would have made little sense to them.

6. Evangelism. Yes – but they never agonised as we do over how to set about it.

7.  Church growth. Yes – though I sense they were more bothered about individuals becoming believers than they were about filling buildings on Sunday.
8.  Global partnerships. Yes, our world is more extensive – but Bede tells us amazing stories of the gospel crossing rivers, forests, seas and mountains. And as we’ll hear this evening, one nation depended on the resources of another for the gospel to be proclaimed.

9.  Justice and peace: Vision 650 was equally concerned with the needs of the poor and the freeing of slaves, and all that Jesus’s Nazareth sermon continues to demand of his hearers.

10.  Finally, the integrity of creation: and the Church that produced Cuthbert and his concern for the cuddy ducks has plenty to teach us still today – and the ubiquitous cat on the Durham Park and Ride buses (and everywhere else) says it all really.

Sunday, 7 July 2013

Miracles of Love

Baptismal sermon preached by Ray Anglesea at St Andrew's Dawson Street, Crook - Sunday July 7th
 
Congratulations to Bryan and Stephanie on Joey’s baptism, and Robert and Charmaine on Damian’s baptism.  It is lovely to see you all in church together with your family and friends.
 

It was reported on the BBC and in the newspapers last week that Britain is poised to become the first country to allow babies to be born with three biological parents. The historic proposal would lift a ban on IVF treatments that can eliminate incurable genetic diseases. We thank God for such groundbreaking new procedures, pioneered in one of our own University’s - that of Newcastle.  Such cutting edge practices will give fresh hope to scores of mothers, many of whom live with extremely cruel, unpredictable and devastating medical conditions. Two friends of mine have recently undergone IVF treatment after many disappointments and setbacks. Mother 1 has passed through her 12 week barrier and is doing well, mother number 2 is not quite there yet, but there are optimistic signs that all will be well. We have come a long way since Louise Brown the first test tube baby was born in 1978 and for which her doctor, Dr Edwards, received the 2010 Nobel Prize for Medicine. Louise was later to conceive a son, Cameron, by natural methods. Miracle babies indeed. Praise God for the wonders of medical science and research!
 
But all babies, whether conceived naturally or by other means are born in love and for love – as my mother would say babies bring a lot of love with them - infant baptism expresses the ultimate primacy of God’s love. God say’s to Jeremiah “before I formed you in the womb I knew you and before you were born I consecrated you.” The very existence of a baby, of Joey and Damian is a gift from God, a precious person, to be loved and cherished. And just as my two IVF mothers have said yes to this gift of cherishing the unborn baby in the womb and preparing for its birth so Joey and Damian’s parents have said yes to bringing their child for baptism for no other reason but for this child to be loved by God, to be called one of his own and that it might share in eternal life. And today that love has a human face in Joey and Jack. And to these very young lives we bring our own memories of those who have loved us into life, whose lives are interwoven with ours and made us who and what we are.
 
Bryan and Stephanie, Robert and Charmaine, take this promise home with you today - God unconditionally loves you – we do not have to thrash around like that great musician and song writer Freddie Mercury in his soul-searching piece - Somebody to love – please anybody find me somebody to love! God loves you. Faith is our response to the astonishing discovery that God loves us. God’s choice of us precedes our choice of God.
 
And here is the good news. God today has committed himself to Joey and Damian – for ever and for all time “and lo I am with you always to the end of time,” as St Matthew puts it at the end of his very Jewish gospel. That’s God’s part of the bargain, that’s what’s God has promised today as part of the deal. Bryan and Stephanie, Robert and Charmaine, in the months and years ahead you will be able to draw upon more than just your own strength, your own capacity to love each other, today you have opened yourselves up to a relationship of God's love, in the hope that when you face difficulties you will be able to offer one another more than simply your own individual words and feelings.
In this relationship as in every serious relationship there will be ups and downs, moments of tension, discord. In human terms there will be nights with a crying child, falling out, tears, naughty children may have to be disciplined and sat on  the naughty step - my grandson sometimes finds himself there. There will be frustration about the lack of employment opportunities, insufficient funds and days when we just feel down, tired and bored. And with all the pressures of family life it is often difficult to make headway. But Bryan and Stephanie, Robert and Charmaine, you are surrounded by loving families with offers of help and support, sleep-overs, shopping, grandparents love giving their grandchildren back to parents. Use them. We as a church are here to help you too, our doors are always open, you have our telephone numbers, we too can provide help and support, education and teenage training. Alas human beings live in a world of good and bad and that makes our lives and relationships painful and complicated but not so with God. God will never give up on you, even if you run away from him. Bryan and Stephanie, Robert and Charmaine, never stop loving each other  - you will be Joey and Damian’s role models of what human love and family life is like and can be for the rest of their lives – they will learn from you, you will be there examples. And in all this we, as we are able, together, will do everything possible to keep our promises to love, help and support you.
So before we complain too loudly about a world of disposable relationships, Egyptian riots, violence and the brutal murders of April Jones and Drummer Lee Rigby, dodgy banking phone deals and the decline of political trust, we should remember today that we have cause for thanksgiving – God has committed himself yet again to two more human families, the Crossley and Carr families here in Crook, and in the lives of these lovely families with whom today we join in celebration, we see that embracing, renewing and hopeful vision of God’s faithful love, a God who will never let you go. 
May God bless you on your journey, and may your child’s baptism open your eyes to live the faith more fully. Amen